Most couples dealing with an affair get into what I call hyper fix-it mode. The problem, however, is that they start to gain a lot of velocity, but they often have little vector. That is, though their motives are great, their methodology in attempting to repair the marriage is often skewed.

One thing is for sure, however, if a couple that is dealing with an affair / adultery does not start to replace the bad ingredients in their relationship with good ingredients, then they will have a difficult time overcoming the affair. The problem, nevertheless, is what do you start to change first?

Do you try to reduplicate all the old feelings that you had when you first met?

Do you just get tough and put your nose to the grind and decide that you should be in it to win it?

Do you take a long vacation and reconnect?

Do you buy jewelry and flowers to try to get the magic to come back?

Do you . . .

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